Saturday, October 29, 2011
THE SLOB…RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!
I just don’t understand why my oldest can’t get through her head that her nasty dirty underwear don’t belong in the floor, bed needs to be made and half eaten food doesn’t belong shoved and hidden in her room. It’s amazing that I left her father when she was 4 yrs. old and yet she does a lot of things he did. Which drives me insane. I left my ex for his hoardness and sloppy ways. So tell me people when it’s your kid what the heck do you do? You can’t run away from them or leave them. No matter how much she gets grounded, spanked, goals set to improve, or just yelled at nothing works. Positive or Negative she still is the nasty child that I love. She answers the phone and tell important people that we can’t talk right now because we are napping. Even though we have told her that all important calls need to be given to us. At least this year her grades have improved. I have to always be on her about feeding her bird or dog. Not to mention practice your instrument and do your homework. This has been years of frustration and now she is 14yrs old. Shouldn’t she know better by now? I am constantly told by people I am mean because she is always grounded. What am I suppose to do? Let her do whatever she wants like her sperm donor’s moms did? Now he is a burden to the world. I don’t want her to be supported by the tax payers because she can’t keep a job. It’s going to be worse for her because it will be hard for her to find a man that wants to marry a slob. It’s so frustrating. So please any advice? Things to try? Like I said we have tired lists and poster boards to remind her. We have tried consequences and groundings. Nothing works!!! GRRRR